Life doesn't wait for you. Life goes on. And life doesn't care if you feel good or bad. For life itself, everything is perfect. Life goes exactly as it should. It goes on. So let it go. I myself notice that accepting the current situation gives space. It makes you feel freer. It brings relaxation and a sense of inner peace.
Fighting it only makes it worse. Then you only get more resistance as I see it. Accepting and embracing it plus going along with it is more streamlined.
Don't go with the flow of all the limitations and imposed rules, inside and outside yourself, but go with the flow of your life. The life that you do have influence on. You can get on board. It's time to get on board of life as life is designed for you. Let life happen around you. Try to let go of what you have no influence on and focus on what you do have influence on. Your own beautiful life. It's time and let go of stuck emotions from the past.
Start living 
Change what you want to change. Say goodbye to what you want to say goodbye to. Let go of what no longer serves you. Start living the life you want. Start living your dreams, your passions. Connect with your heart and with the people you love. Connect with nature. Do what makes you truly happy. And please stop doing the things that make you truly unhappy. You don't deserve that. Everyone deserves the most beautiful thing in the world. You, me, all of us. We are here to make it a fantastic party.
But how?
And now I can imagine that you might think: yes, how? You can say that very nicely, but I am stuck in a job. I do not know what to do with my life. I have been feeling miserable for years. You can talk nicely. And that is okay! I recognize that. I was there too. I also saw no way out and kept running into the same (emotional) blockages. Until I came into contact with Terra Nova and after the first retreat with my transformative coach Sandra Baaijens went to work. Then the how then? transformed into there is a possible. There was an opportunity to transform my life.
There was hope and confidence started to come. Every step was a step forward. Not knowing where I would end up. But everything in my whole system told me to go for it. And that I just had to take that first step.
It's now been more than two years and I am grateful that I took those first steps.
And sometimes that's all you need.
Lift your foot…
And taking that first step…
And from there life unfolds itself.
Love,
Brian